Betrayal

If I find you betray me, I'm DONE! Let me explain... if there is no trust there is nothing. You simply do not have access to me anymore. There will be no explanations, no second chances, no excuses.

Just done. Blocked. Cut off. I will carry on without you.

This is because through my healing, I have learned to value myself too much to ever allow someone else not to.

Here's the beautiful thing about me... With grace, mercy and understanding I would give the shirt off my back. There isn't much I wouldn't do for someone.

BUT The moment I feel betrayed, cheated on, taken advantage of, or you come at me sideways...ALL BETS ARE OFF. I'm just done with them. No looking back.

Once my trust is broken. They won't have it again.

EVER.

Who they are or what they have matters not to me because I'm not easily impressed. Impress me with your character.

Sisters, I am here to guide you so that you can heal and see the value in yourselves. When someone betrays you, that is disrespectful, and you should never allow it to happen twice.

When you raise your standards, you set the bar on the quality of people that enter your life.

When you decide to value yourself, you’re setting a powerful boundary that says, I deserve respect, honesty, and loyalty. Betrayal is a line that, once crossed, cannot be undone. It’s not about holding a grudge—it’s about protecting your peace and knowing your worth. Trust is sacred, and when someone breaks it, they’ve shown you who they really are. Believe them the first time.

Healing has taught me that forgiveness doesn’t mean welcoming someone back into your life. It’s about releasing the anger and pain for your own peace, not giving them a free pass to hurt you again. Forgiveness is for you, not for them. Boundaries are for you, not for them.

Ladies, hear me: when you allow betrayal or disrespect to slide, you’re teaching others how to treat you. You’re saying it’s okay to cross your boundaries, and that you’ll stick around no matter what. But when you stand firm and say, I’m done, you’re sending a powerful message—to others and to yourself—that you will not tolerate anything less than what you deserve.

Raising your standards doesn’t make you harsh or unforgiving; it makes you wise. It weeds out those who don’t value you and leaves room for those who will. The people who belong in your life will respect your boundaries, cherish your trust, and honor your worth.

So, sisters, don’t ever settle for less. Walk away from betrayal with your head held high. Let your standards be the gatekeeper to your life, and trust that the right people—those who see your value—will rise to meet them. You are worth it. Always.