Sometimes a perfect family is a mother and her children.

I know someone needed to hear this.

Let me know if it's you.

Here's the reality: some women remain in abusive relationships because they think they are keeping their family intact and that it's better for the children.

But that's not true. Let me emphasize it's not true.

Those little ones, those precious gifts from God, are learning what is acceptable in life by observing how their mother is treated. Growing up in a toxic environment is not healthy for them.

I want to be the voice that tells you that by removing yourself and your children from a situation filled with anxiety and uncertainty, you are actually prioritizing their well-being. They deserve to feel peace.

And I know this might be controversial, but let's be clear: a father who abuses the mother of their children does not truly love their children. A mother is a child's primary source of emotional support, and if she is being traumatized on a daily basis, she cannot provide the best for her child.

So, ladies, in some situations, a complete and loving family can simply be a mother and her children. 100%.

If you’re feeling guilty or questioning whether leaving is the right choice, let me remind you: protecting your children and yourself is one of the most loving things you can do. Sometimes, breaking free from a toxic or abusive relationship is the greatest act of love—not just for yourself but for your kids, too. Children thrive in environments where they feel safe, valued, and loved unconditionally. That doesn’t require a picture-perfect family dynamic; it requires a healthy and peaceful home.

By choosing to step away from toxicity, you’re teaching your children a powerful lesson about self-respect, boundaries, and courage. You’re showing them that love doesn’t hurt, and that no one should tolerate mistreatment. You’re modeling strength and resilience; qualities they’ll carry with them for life.

It’s okay to feel scared or uncertain—leaving isn’t easy. But you are not alone. There is support, there are resources, and there is a God who sees you and will walk with you every step of the way. Trust that His plan for you and your children is far greater than anything you’re leaving behind.

Remember this: a family isn’t defined by the number of people in the home; it’s defined by the love and safety shared within it. A mother who is free to love her children without fear or pain is creating the foundation for a truly happy, healthy family.

You are enough, and your love is enough. Don’t let anyone make you feel otherwise. Be strong, be brave, and know that you and your children deserve a life filled with peace, love, and joy. And if no one else has told you this today: you’re doing an amazing job. Keep going—you’ve got this.

Please share this with someone who needs this reminder.